While
the Gospels speak little of Jesus’ life or The Holy Family, before
Jesus’ public ministry, historical accounts point out that Jesus was born into
a turbulent, dangerous world of political and social upheaval. Serenity and
peace were at a premium. This week our liturgical calendar
celebrates The Presentation of Jesus in the
temple Luke2:22-40 . Despite
the many hardships and challenges, I’m struck by how diligent Mary and Joseph
were in discharging their parental duties, as they faithfully adhered to the
tenets and practices of their religion.
And
so, here we have in Luke’s
account of Jesus’ presentation, the ceremonial “brit milah”
performed on the eight day following his birth. Along with Jesus’
parents, there are two other attendants, Simeon and Anna, who upon seeing
Jesus, praise and give thanks to God for granting them the opportunity to
witness the arrival of the child whom they “recognize” as the fulfillment of
the prophecy and the One for whom they waited.
This story of Jesus’ first religious ritual
prompts memories of our own parents’ involvement in the practices of our faith,
and although our early memory is lost to our infancy, many of us still cherish
the pictures and artifacts that call these rituals to mind, if only
second-hand. These memories pay tribute to the personal commitments our parents
and caregivers made with regard to our religious development. Like the child
Jesus, our religious lineage began with the faithful hopes and practices of our
parents and others who may have been responsible for our care.
As with most of us, my mother and father
were responsible for my attending weekly church services and as with most, I
often resisted the call; after all, it was Sunday and I could sleep late or go
out and play with those friends, who somehow were “excused” from Sunday
services. As for the Church, except for worship, there was little in the way of
social activities to keep me coming or hold me. We just went to Church and we
returned home. Yes, there were choir practices and altar boy calls and during
Lent we attended seasonal services, but it was my parents who established the
practices, and saw to it that I followed their lead. I had no choice. So, we
went, we listened, we learned and eventually patterns were established as
requisite attendance became ingrained.
The decline of the family unit has been
linked to a myriad of economic and social problems in our country. It is a fact
that our children suffer most from this decline and while we look for help from
outside agencies, I often wonder if we are too quick to relegate the care of
these precious lives to external resources. There’s a fine line between
delegation and abdication. It seems that as the problems grow more severe,
additional resources are proposed to expand support for childhood development,
and to entrust the educational, social and even religious development of our
children to institutions. While help is invaluable and with regard to
education, essential, I do not believe that it takes a village to
raise a child. Luke’s Gospel reminds me that Jesus didn’t just leap from the
manger and begin performing miracles and preaching God’s love. Yes, the focus
is on Jesus, but it reminds us of the role Mary and Joseph played in Jesus
formative years. Sure times have changed but parental duties in the rearing of
children, despite challenges and obstacles, still fall to the loving family
unit.