The gospel celebrating The Wedding at Cana is unique to John and is the first of the miracles which he referred to seven signs. John referred to these signs throughout Jesus’ ministry as events pointing to the Lord’s divinity.
While the scene conjures up a beautiful image of Jesus as a young man accompanying his mother to a wedding feast, it reminds us that the mystery of God’s incarnation in Jesus, has as much to do with Jesus’ humanity than his divinity. That God could do miraculous things is easily understood. After all he is God. But that he could live like us with all our fears and joy, fully human is still amazing. He is one of us… and that’s the whole point.
The exchange between Jesus and his mother is endearingly familiar and personally humorous. Mary, to whom John never calls by name, senses the embarrassment of the wedding hosts and points out to Jesus that they have run out of wine. Despite any response from Jesus and without any further consultation, Mother Mary tells the servants to follow his instructions and do whatever he says.
I have this image of my mother encouraging me on the high diving board in Steeplechase: “Come on, you can do it! I know you can!” “But, Ma, it’s too high and I’m scared.” “Don’t be afraid, I’m here, you can do it, I know your can do it.” And I did.
Or a time much later in my life when in the throes of an ongoing job interview process, my mother comes home with the telephone number of a “big shot executive” son of a friend” who is expecting my call Saturday morning.
“Ma, this is embarrassing and not how it’s done I protested. You don’t get a job in this company just because your mother works with someone’s mother.” Oblivious to my response, she replies “Never mind, just call him at 10:00 AM tomorrow; he’s expecting you.”
I wonder what my mother or Mary saw in their sons at that moment. What was that my mother knew that I could dive off the high board and I could get the job of my dreams? Mary had faith in her son and believed that such a miracle was possible? How did she know that this was his time? How did my mother know that I was ready and just needed a little push?
And what about the unspoken “dialogue” between Rosa Parks and Martin Luther King. In many ways the exchange between Mary and Jesus is somewhat reminiscent of that unspoken “dialogue,” characterized by Rosa’s refusing to yield her seat. Could this well-publicized event have provoked King, whose time he thought had not yet come, to transform history. His moment was at hand.
It is more than coincidence that Jesus’ mother surrounds his earthly ministry. She is there at the very beginning of his ministry and is there at his very painful end. She is the nurturing force, and the earthly mother of the Word of God made flesh as she shares parenthood with God.
Perhaps this sign in John 2:1-11 serves to remind us that whenever Jesus reveals his divinity, he is simultaneously revealing something about his humanity. Could this also serve to remind us of transformative changes in our faith as God’s incarnation in Jesus is about his incarnation in us. Are we ready; do we need a little push?